Even though I had my
sisterlocs installed on December 5
th, they were not actually "established, claimed, debuted" whatever you want to call it until recently. I was just uncomfortable with the shrivelled and wiry look of my
locs initially that I could not bring myself to walk around with them until I was comfortable. My sides were thin and there was a great deal of spacing (due to the thinness of my hair) . Basically, there was no way, that I was ending the relationship with my short and sassy wig....not yet. I wore my
locs aout when I would get home but continued to wear my wig
whenever I was going out in public and I did this until recently. Last weekend I decided that I would wear my hair out for a day and ended up wearing it out for the entire weekend. I felt so free and empowered to wear out my own hair . It felt
sooo great. Monday morning was a different thing....I convinced myself that I needed to wear the wig until I got my re-tightening within the next 2 weeks. By
Tuesday, I realized that I seemed to have developed an allergic reaction to my wig . All of a sudden, I started breaking out around my hairline and the wig was just so itchy. It was driving me up the wall...lol. By
Thursday, I was done and I walked into my office on
Friday morning with my crowning "glory". Here is the kicker....I got so many compliments about how cute my hair was. Even from people who never say anything about my hair. It was quite an eye opener ( for me). Anyway, I am free now and feel great about coming out and making peace with my hair and with MYSELF. I love my
locks and expect them to flourish even more now that I have fully embraced them all 418 of them ( I counted them last night).